A wise person said one time that the definition of a mature person was the ability to hold two contradictory thoughts in the mind at the same time. To what extent do you appreciate paradox, the ying and yang of life? As the bumper sticker says, "To dichotomize is either good or bad."
People should talk only if they can improve the silence. Of course, some people love to hear themselves talk, that's how they learn what they are thinking and feeling and intending. Hearing themselves talk out loud makes conscious what was unconscious. The question is who is the talking for? Who does it benefit?
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